Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Complaints About My Mother

You're probably asking why am I displaying my 'dirty laundry' on the internet. Well for your information, when I tell you these things, you get mad and scoff and badmouth under your breathe and tell me that I am a worthless son and tell me that I should not talk back to you.

Yeah so go back to complaining that I don't help around the house enough because I am too lazy to do anything about my immense pain and immobility. You just keep it in your head that I don't have a disability or am crippled.


The Dogs:

I cannot play with my dogs outside because the grass is messy and dirty and apparently you are the only one who bathes them, you know... You bathe your favorite dog at least once a week and the others once a month. Good on you.

I cannot play with my dogs inside the house even if I close off the area for one room because you don't want them getting their hair all over the house. You would rather them be locked up in their crate for their entire duration inside, and then when they're outside you put them inside a play pen. Great Parenting there, it's obvious you treat them with the same methodology you treated us.


Helping Around The House:

I get there are things to be done around the house. I really do, but I cannot know what projects you want done so don't go griping at me for not helping when I don't know what you are doing.


 My Laziness:

I do what I can when I see it. I cannot help it if my body is in immense pain and has bouts of immobility. That doesn't mean I am lazy. For heaven's gates, I AM IN PAIN. I don't show it all the time but I spend a lot of my days in incredible pain so forgive me that I can't help you carry things. Or do the tasks that men should do because I can't. My Body is dying and all you say is that I should exercise more and be more open minded. I am extremely open minded whereas you are certainly closed. And exercise is hard when I am in pain and can't move. You should try it. You know, every single one of your joints is in pain all the time, and at the moment your left hand is limited because you lost the majority of usage of your middle finger making simple things like picking a cup up more difficult.


My Money:

You refuse to help me with my disability and paying for my medical treatments so I have to. So it is total irresponsibility on your part when you complain that I go to work and you never see any of the money. Wanna guess why? Because my condition is an Auto Immune disease that costs a lot of money to be treated. Wanna guess something else, even with the money I have been making, I am a full year behind the recommended treatment and might die sooner. So whoopie doo for me, at least I am trying to get it worked on.

Paying for my Medical Treatments is not "Dilly Dallying and Wasting My Money" you irrational, close minded, plebeian.